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Valentine's Day: Letters of Love and Loss Amid War

As Ukraine commemorates love amidst conflict, the stories of lost communication and emotional turbulence surface, reminding many of their significant others at the frontlines.

By Constant Méheut, Daria Mitiuk and Gray BeltranSource: nytimes.com1 min read

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The anniversary of Valentine’s Day rings with deep emotional resonance for partners of combatants in Ukraine, especially for those like Olha Chesnokova and Yevhen Volosyan. As the ongoing conflict continues to separate loved ones, messages exchanged have become poignant markers of uncertainty and longing.

In February 2025, Olha recalls her vibrant love story with Yevhen, which began on Tinder just a month before he enlisted. Their connection blossomed rapidly, marked by shared interests in music and profound affection. Their joyous moments took a turn when Yevhen was deployed, first as a radio operator and later as a drone pilot, participating in harrowing missions against Russian forces.For many couples, the communication channels are both a lifeline and a source of heartache. On November 24, 2023, Olha sent a reassuring text to Yevhen, before experiencing an unsettling silence. Promises of reunion faded as the growing distance took its toll, compounded by the inherent dangers of war. "This was supposed to last," Olha reflects, finding solace in memories of passion that contrast starkly with the reality of her partner’s danger. Daily texts transformed from sweet nothings into urgent calls for reassurance as uncertainty loomed large in their lives.Valentine's Day is not only a celebration but a stark reminder of loss and longing for many Ukrainians. Couples like Olha and Yevhen, who once cherished romantic moments together, now grapple with the unpredictability of war. The emotional struggle encapsulates a deeper theme of love transcending even the most perilous of circumstances.

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