After losing her husband in a tragic attack in Kashmir, Himanshi Narwal became a symbol of grief, only to be viciously trolled for urging peace. As the backlash intensifies, the narrative highlights the alarming treatment of female victims in times of conflict.
From Mourning to Misogyny: The Disturbing Journey of Kashmir Attack Widow

From Mourning to Misogyny: The Disturbing Journey of Kashmir Attack Widow
Himanshi Narwal, the widow of a Kashmir attack victim, faces a torrent of online abuse for advocating peace amid rising tensions and hate campaigns.
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A heart-wrenching photo of Himanshi Narwal mourning next to her husband's body after the recent Kashmir attack captured global attention, symbolizing the tragedy that unfolded on April 22 when 26 civilians were killed. Narwal, whose husband Vinay Narwal was a naval officer shot just days after their wedding, became the face of the grief surrounding the incident. However, her call for peace quickly turned her into a target for online harassment.
As public emotions soared following the attack, she urged against blaming Muslims and Kashmiris, expressing a desire for justice without inciting further violence. "We want peace and only peace," she stated firmly during a blood donation event on what would have been her husband's 27th birthday. Yet, what should have been a moment of solidarity transformed into a hate campaign, with many internet users who once empathed with her now posting venomous comments.
Critics accused Narwal of dishonoring her husband by not condemning the entire Kashmiri community after reports indicated that the attack targeted Hindu victims based on their religion. Additionally, spurious claims circulated regarding her past relationships, while some dismissed her grief due to the short duration of their marriage.
The National Commission for Women condemned the backlash, stating that no person should be subjected to abuse for expressing their views. Journalist Namita Bhandare highlighted the immense pressure on women, especially victims, stating how their pleas for peace can ignite online vitriol rather than compassion.
Himanshi Narwal was not alone; other survivors from the attack, like Arathi R Menon who lost her father, similarly faced online criticism for their emotional responses – further painting a troubling picture about gender and the impacts of violence on women’s public narratives.
Despite the hatred she encountered, Narwal has garnered support too, with activists recognizing her courage in calling for peace amidst chaos. The absence of action from government officials and law enforcement raises concerns about continued social harassment.
The pattern of online animosity against women, especially those who express contrary views in tumultuous situations, underscores a pervasive issue in digital discourse. Experts note that while these campaigns may fade, the risks of misogyny in such contexts persist.
A heart-wrenching photo of Himanshi Narwal mourning next to her husband's body after the recent Kashmir attack captured global attention, symbolizing the tragedy that unfolded on April 22 when 26 civilians were killed. Narwal, whose husband Vinay Narwal was a naval officer shot just days after their wedding, became the face of the grief surrounding the incident. However, her call for peace quickly turned her into a target for online harassment.
As public emotions soared following the attack, she urged against blaming Muslims and Kashmiris, expressing a desire for justice without inciting further violence. "We want peace and only peace," she stated firmly during a blood donation event on what would have been her husband's 27th birthday. Yet, what should have been a moment of solidarity transformed into a hate campaign, with many internet users who once empathed with her now posting venomous comments.
Critics accused Narwal of dishonoring her husband by not condemning the entire Kashmiri community after reports indicated that the attack targeted Hindu victims based on their religion. Additionally, spurious claims circulated regarding her past relationships, while some dismissed her grief due to the short duration of their marriage.
The National Commission for Women condemned the backlash, stating that no person should be subjected to abuse for expressing their views. Journalist Namita Bhandare highlighted the immense pressure on women, especially victims, stating how their pleas for peace can ignite online vitriol rather than compassion.
Himanshi Narwal was not alone; other survivors from the attack, like Arathi R Menon who lost her father, similarly faced online criticism for their emotional responses – further painting a troubling picture about gender and the impacts of violence on women’s public narratives.
Despite the hatred she encountered, Narwal has garnered support too, with activists recognizing her courage in calling for peace amidst chaos. The absence of action from government officials and law enforcement raises concerns about continued social harassment.
The pattern of online animosity against women, especially those who express contrary views in tumultuous situations, underscores a pervasive issue in digital discourse. Experts note that while these campaigns may fade, the risks of misogyny in such contexts persist.