As Russian soldiers go missing in Ukraine without any formal tracking system from the government, families are left to navigate their grief with minimal support and information, exacerbating their pain and confusion.
Families Desperate for Answers: The Struggle of Missing Russian Soldiers in Ukraine

Families Desperate for Answers: The Struggle of Missing Russian Soldiers in Ukraine
The Russian military's lack of organized efforts leaves families of missing soldiers in distress and uncertainty amid the ongoing war.
For months, Elvira Kaipova has been anxiously awaiting news of her son Rafael, a soldier deployed in Ukraine. Despite her persistent inquiries with military officials regarding his status, she received little more than vague responses indicating he was on active duty. Then, in late November, just two days after officials reiterated that he was unreachable, she stumbled across the shocking news that he had gone missing on November 1 through a Telegram channel dedicated to military families.
The chilling message she received from Aleksandr Sokolov, the officer in charge of family communication within Rafael's unit, starkly demonstrated the harsh realities these families face. “We lost your son,” he stated when she visited the headquarters in western Russia, a revelation that left her reeling in disbelief and anger. Determined to understand the situation, she pressed the officer for clarity, asking how a search could be conducted if communication had ceased. “How do we search for him?” she echoed, reflecting the frustration shared by many bereaved families.
This distressing scenario is not isolated; since the onset of the conflict in Ukraine in February 2022, countless families have faced similar heartbreak due to the Russian Ministry of Defense's failure to establish any formal system for tracking the whereabouts of missing soldiers. Bereaved families, as well as private organizations trying to assist them, report that they are left to cope with the ordeal largely on their own, grappling with a frustrating lack of information and support from the government.
The Ministry of Defense has remained silent on the issue, declining to provide any comments for clarification. Sokolov, the liaison officer, further complicated matters with a text message indicating his inability to comment on any specifics. As these families navigate a reality filled with uncertainty, they find themselves searching for answers in a situation that feels increasingly hopeless.